Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Matthew update

Our "little" guy is thinning out, apparently.  He's no longer way up top the growth chart.  His doc thinks that's because he's a moving machine now.  I was off by one ounce.  Matthew weighed 24 pounds 15 ounces (I guessed 25 pounds) at his one-year checkup last week.  And I guessed his height exactly: 31 inches.

Update on the prayer request for Kaitlin's pom squad... THEY WON!  First place in jazz and second place in pom at the UDA National competition in Orlando this past weekend.  Way to go, girls!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Matthew is one year old today!


I can't believe it... my "baby" is one.  He's definitely a toddler.  But he'll always be my baby.  Though we might adopt another child someday, Matthew is likely my last little bottle drinker, my last little rocking-chair snuggler, my last little one to cut his first tooth, my last little one to take his first steps, etc.  Mark and I tried to make a deal with him when he was four months old that we would let him drink from a bottle forever if he would just stay that age forever.  It didn't work.

Matthew's burn is healing nicely (I think I forgot to mention that he pulled a cup of fresh hot coffee off the table 10 days ago).  He rarely resorts to crawling anymore as he is becoming more steady on his feet.  He has eight teeth and is actively cutting his one-year molars (not a pleasant experience for any of us).  Right now he's playing with today's toy of choice: two small, thin, plastic cutting boards.  Attempts to remove those from his hands results in wailing and gnashing of teeth (well, really just high-pitched screams and cries and pounding of fists on the ground, an example of how I know that THIS child is our strong-willed child).

Matthew's one-year checkup is on Friday.  I'll post his "particulars" after that visit, but my guess is that he is roughly 31" tall and weighs over 25 pounds.  We're going to visit the NICU in a couple of weeks and I'm sure they'll be impressed by the size of this former preemie (he was born at 36 weeks and weighed 8lb 3oz, but still spent 11 days in the NICU and came home on Valentine's Day).

Happy birthday, sweet boy.  I love you dearly!

(see post below for lots more photos)

Photos - birthday and goofing around

Before the cake
A big taste
He didn't really care for the cake, but he LOVED playing with it!
Two-fisted
Score: Matthew 1, Cake 0
Mark and his cousin, Mike
Mike's daughter, Kaitlyn, and Mike's wife, Susan
(On a super-fun, separate note, pray for Kaitlyn and her pom squad as they're leaving tomorrow for Nationals in Orlando... they won one event last year and placed second in the other... here's praying for a sweep this year!  Go EP!)

Oma and Micah
Goofy Nathan
Fun with a hat

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

The view


Here's the view from our back porch.  Aren't the trees pretty?

And stay tuned... tomorrow is Matthew's birthday (we already have pictures of his first cake, but I'll post them tomorrow).

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Micah pulled Matthew down!

The rules-follower in me says that I should be appalled at Micah's abuse of his brother.

Allow me to describe the scene as there are no photos. Micah and Matthew were sitting and playing in the playroom. Matthew takes a toy from Micah, puts it on the train table, and stands up to play with it. Micah grabs Matthew's shirt, pulls him down, and grunts/growls at him. After I said a half-hearted "No, Micah," I turned around, smiled, and shared Micah's assertiveness with Mark.

Way to go, Micah. Um, don't pull your brother's shirt.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Wordless Wednesday - First Haircut





Friday, January 15, 2010

Haiti relief

My friend, Amy, at A Scrapbook of Sorts, has challenged her readers to blog about their efforts toward Haiti relief. She's giving $1 to Compassion for everyone who blogs about it and adds their name to her Mister Linky.

We have chosen to send money to Bethany Christian Services. They run two orphanages in Haiti. All of the children and staff are safe. But I'm certain they will have many more children to add to their homes soon. The director of one of those orphanages did an interview on the Today Show on Wednesday.

James 1:27 tells us, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world."

Please do what you can.

(As a side note to my readers who don't have the best impression of evangelical Christians, please know that most of us disagree with Pat Robertson's assessment of Haiti's situation.)

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Video - Matthew walking

(to my email subscribers, you'll have to link through to the blog to see it)


video

A funny story about Matthew... Mark took the boys in for their flu booster shots in December. Micah cried (briefly, as always). Mark joked with the nurse that Matthew is so fat, he probably won't even feel it. Seriously... the child didn't even flinch!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Micah is 2 years old today!

Love this kid!!! Time flies... It's hard to believe it's been two years, but given the fact that we've had another baby since then who will be one in a month, I certainly hope it's been two years! :-)

My blog posts around the time of Micah's birth were random at best, or I would link to a specific post. But I should probably write Micah's birth story one of these days. Suffice it to say, January 5th 2008 did not go as planned. Micah was born early (34 1/2 weeks), following a long spell of pre-term labor due to his duodenal atresia (the first part of his small intestine was not connected to the second part, thus causing an overabundance of amniotic fluid). I was huge, even after my perinatologist had done two amnio reductions (draining a total of 2.5 liters of fluid out of the amniotic sac... I'll spare you the gory details).

I was about to get sent by ambulance to Milwaukee for the delivery, but my labor progressed too quickly. And it's a good thing I wasn't moved (I wrote about that a bit before). Micah was born via emergency c-section at 2:32pm. He was beautiful! I saw him briefly before he was taken to the NICU. The next time I saw him was about 3 hours later. He was "packed for transport" for his trip to Milwaukee, so I still couldn't hold him. It was then that I saw his left hand. It was really hard... learning about that, having only a couple of minutes with him, and then not seeing him for almost 3 whole days.

Enough about that. You'd rather hear about his life NOW, right? Micah has the most charming and engaging smile. His laugh is hysterical... sort of hoarse, maybe due to his tonsils being large? He snuggles right into your shoulder, almost like he melted into you. He gives kisses (by clicking his tongue rather than pursing his lips, but it's still sweet). He is very much a mama's boy, which is both honoring and overwhelming at the same time.


Micah has orthotics to give some support to his ankles now, and that necessitated a new shoe purchase. With his orthotics on, he needs a size 4 extra wide, which is Matthew's shoe size! See pic below for the shoes. They're really cute, like baby Doc Martens (think leather monkey boot, if you're familiar with Docs). They go a bit above his ankles.

Micah still receives about 90% of his nutrition through his feeding tube. He's taking small quantities of pureed baby food (stage 2 mostly) on a baby spoon. But he won't let any other item close to his mouth, including finger food or a cup. Even if he was taking in a huge volume of food orally, he couldn't go without the feeding tube because he will not allow fluids to pass his lips. We've been on the feeding tube journey for almost 2 years now. It stinks.

Micah is pulling to stand. He recently started moving his feet a bit more. I'm hoping to see him cruise the furniture more soon. He also recently started taking a few steps forward while holding (tightly) onto someone's hands. And just today, as he was standing holding onto my hand, he briefly and willingly let go. He was only able to stay standing for about 2 seconds before sitting down, but it's huge that he felt comfortable enough to let go (without me prying his fingers off my hand).

What have I left out? Just that this little boy brings a ton of joy to our lives. I will not say it's been an easy two years. And I'm still not in the camp of those who are actually glad that their child has Down syndrome (who knows... maybe I would be without all the medical junk... but maybe not then either... would I take away that extra chromosome if I could? Probably. Am I the only mom of a kid with designer genes who would? I'm pretty sure that I'm not, though expressing these feelings might get me blacklisted! Truthfully, though, I would really miss the amazing friends I've made in real life as well as in the blogosphere who share in our journey, and I'd miss out on some amazing life lessons that God has taught me and continues to teach me through Micah). I love this boy. And I wouldn't trade him, so don't ask. :-)

Happy birthday, my darling boy.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Additional Christmas photos

For my Facebook friends, you saw these same photos yesterday. But for everyone else, here are some additional photos from Christmas morning.

Before he broke into the stash Micah just loves getting Nathan hugs
Sweet boy
The tradition is to put baby Jesus in the manger on Christmas morning.
Nathan with his favorite gift (a Leapster). Thanks, Granddad!
Fascinated by the ribbons
All three in a photo together! And all three got the biggest kick out of the busy ball popper.
Me and my boy!
Matthew simply was not going to be contained
But Nathan did everything he could to remove him from the temptations
Daddy and his baby
Size 2T jersey for our almost-11-month-old (thanks, Uncle Bill and Beth)

Thursday, December 31, 2009

2009 Family Christmas Photo


This is as good as you get with three small boys. At least Nathan has a fun smile...

We are working on editing our Christmas letter in order to post it (tomorrow?). But, it's new year's eve and I'm having a bit of champagne. It's been a while since I haven't been pregnant on new year's eve!

Happy New Year, everyone! May your year be filled with fun and laughter. May you grow in wisdom. And may you know the peace that surpasses all understanding.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Pics of Matthew


I love this t-shirt!

This is what happens when you have a toddler who doesn't like to put away his crayons:

Another food coma:

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Pics of Nathan

This was the leaf pile in front of Mark's parents' house when we were back in WI meeting the movers. All you have to do is get your leaves to your curb and the city comes by and sucks them up (think very large vacuum cleaner). Mark's parents live in the woods and they have a crazy amount of leaves to deal with.
This was Nathan's preschool Christmas program. He was actually doing what he was supposed to do in this one. After this song was over, Nathan proceded to announce, "My tummy is VERY hungry."
This was taken as they were leaving the stage, right after he remarked, "I'm glad it's snack time now." We do feed the child. I promise.
I had to include this photo. He's wearing Mark's glasses from high school. Scary!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Matthew's first steps


Sorry... no video. But Matthew did take his first unassisted steps yesterday. I figured I should blog about it because I have no idea where to find his baby book. Ha! As if I'd remember to write it in there anyway. And as long as I'm writing about a milestone, I should probably document that he has six teeth (3 on top, 3 on bottom), with two more about to pop through.

About the walking thing... honestly, I'm amazed that he's able to get all 24 pounds of himself moving in an intentional direction. His nickname of Brutus will definitely stick. Not only is he pulling Micah down (is it so wrong that I just want Micah to turn around and give him a firm push?), he's also picking on Nathan. He was pulling on Nathan's sweatshirt while Nathan was trying to watch a movie tonight. Nathan was awfully patient with him. He's such a great big brother.
Here are some other photos just for fun. Check out Micah's bottom teeth. He's been smiling with an underbite lately... so cute!

Sunday, December 13, 2009

2009 Christmas letter

I bet the title caught your attention. You were wondering, "How does she have time to write the Christmas letter when she hasn't updated the blog for almost a month?" The answer: I don't.

The title of this post should have been, "Do YOU have time to write my 2009 Christmas letter for me?" And if you did have time, what would you write? I'd pay you for your time.

But I did order the cards. They're addressed. Also enclosed are Matthew's birth announcements (yes, he was born in February) and our change-of-address cards. I need to print return address labels and they'll hit the mail (along with extremely tardy thank-you notes). Here's a preview:


All joking aside, I'll work on the letter and will post it as a link in the top right (above the 2008 Christmas letter, which, by the way, is a great summary of 2008 for those of you who don't know us that well).

We're attempting to get settled in our house here in MN. The search for Christmas CD's has not been successful, though Mark has worked diligently through piles of boxes in the basement. The important things are done, though. A gate has been installed at the base of the steps as Matthew thinks stairs are a pretty fun adventure. Speaking of whom, he's cruising the furniture and will most likely be walking before his first birthday. (hey, look, I'm writing good text for the Christmas letter just by doing a blog posting).

Micah has had a lot of doctor's appointments since we've been here (nothing for an illness, thankfully, just getting to know his new specialists). We've decided to take him to private speech/feeding therapy and we're thrilled with his new SLP (Speech and Language Pathologist). Please pray that the appeal with our insurance company will be successful or this will be quite an expensive month.

Nathan has had some issues with behavior since we moved here, but he seems to be doing better. He informed me a week or so ago that he doesn't like his new school and he wants to go back to Wisconsin to school. I think that was his way of saying that he misses his friends and Grammie and Pop.

We're planning to head back to Wisconsin for Christmas (and the Packer game on 12/27). Please pray that Mark's parents will feel better by then so they can handle our crazy crew. Otherwise, we might have to bring spaceheaters and air mattresses and set up camp at our former house (that has not sold and has been winterized).

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Back online

We've moved into our new house and I finally have internet access (six days later... you'd think I might have actually withered away by now). We still don't have a working stove, but as of yesterday we have a gas line in the kitchen so that we can now connect the stove. However, that involves finding someone to help Mark LIFT the stove over the island because the kitchen is rather small and with the refrigerator in place, we can't simply move the stove through to its intended location. But the grill and microwave works, so we're not tied to take-out (though having a Buca di Beppo a mere five minutes from our house could be dangerous... one order almost took us over our monthly dining out budget!).

I'll try to post more soon, but I'm swimming in boxes. My dad arrives tomorrow. He leaves on Tuesday and Mark's parents come that day for Thanksgiving weekend. We're looking forward to seeing everyone, but I hope their expectations are low!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Thankful A to Z: F=Friends

F is a tough one. I first thought "Family." But also in the running was "Food." I figure food is a given. And family will hit some other posts.

Possibly coincidentally, there are a couple of friends with whom I have lost touch since getting Micah's diagnosis two years ago. But maybe it's not a coincidence. Maybe they don't know what to say. After a few months of reaching out to them, I gave up. If I think about it too much, I get sad.

But those friends aside... I have felt a crazy amount of love expressed by our friends near and far. Thick and thin... faithful friends. I'm not the easiest person to love. But there are some dear women in my life who have been there to listen, on the phone or in person. They've given advice, or simply been silent. They've cried with me. Laughed with me. Prayed with me (some at 5:30 on Monday mornings!). And never did they try to make me feel guilty for what I feel.

So, thank you, sweet friends, for your faithful support of me and our family during this journey we're on. I love you!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Thankful A to Z: E=Emily Perl Kingsley

It seems appropriate on Sesame Street's 40th birthday to mention Emily Perl Kingsley. She wrote the story: Welcome to Holland. It was one of the first things sent to me after we received Micah's diagnosis. Link here for the text. This story made me feel like I wasn't alone. And through it I realized that the sooner I accepted that Italy wasn't going to be our destination, the more I would enjoy Holland.

Ms. Kingsley has a son with Down syndrome and she is a writer for Sesame Street. I'm fairly certain that she has had a major impact on the show having actors with disabilities.

I've actually heard of people not letting their children watch Sesame Street because it doesn't portray an accurate view of society (too "politically correct"). But I can't help but think that maybe, just maybe, one of Micah's future classmates will accept him as he is because she learned on Sesame Street that kids who are "different" aren't really that different after all.

Thankful A to Z: D=Digital photography

I cannot imagine having to keep track of prints and negatives during this crazy busy season of life. Digital photography rules! I can look back on my laptop to find photos of previous moves, such as when Mark found a job in Orlando and "followed" me there in 2001.
And I can also find out by looking on my laptop that I took no photos of our move from Orlando to Nashville in 2002 when we returned from our honeymoon, two weeks before Mark started grad school.

I can find a photo of Jody following the asked-far-too-late question, "Hey, did you already shake this can of primer?" while she was helping us move into our house in Atlanta in 2004.
Then there's the big rig in front of our Atlanta home in early 2007 to move us up to Wisconsin.
And the photo taken from the front porch this morning... an empty truck before the loading began this afternoon.

For those of you counting... since Mark and I started dating, we've moved from Nashville to Orlando to Nashville to Atlanta to Wisconsin to Minnesota. Yes, that's five moves since we started dating in 2001. Serenity now!

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Thankful A to Z: C=Children's Hospital


Micah was supposed to have been born at Froedtert Hospital (the birthing center is attached to Children's Hospital in Milwaukee). We didn't make it there for the delivery. But so much of Micah's first year was spent at that hospital under wonderful care that I couldn't let this month go by without expressing how thankful I am that this hospital, and hospitals like it, exist.

I can't imagine going through all of Micah's "stuff" without knowing he was in the capable hands of doctors and nurses who specialize in caring for children. We didn't *always* have the best experience while he was inpatient (October 2008 sticks out in my mind). But the vast majority of our time there was excellent.

In fact, Micah had his last visit at the Feeding Clinic five weeks ago before we moved. I confess... I cried most of the way home. I have made that drive with Micah countless times. There are so many people there who KNOW him and all of his stuff. I will miss that feeling of security going there. I know Micah will have great doctors here in MN. But they aren't all with the same hospital group. And they haven't been with him since day one.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Thankful A to Z: B=Brothers




We have so much for which to be thankful. I love love love that our boys have multiple brothers that will be their lifelong friends.
(Thanks for the great photos, Heidi)

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Thankful A to Z - A = Andrea and Ann

Okay, Kim, I think you sucked me in (though Mark is not going to be very happy to again be a blogging widower after the frequent postings in October). Kim at A Walk in Lily's Garden has started to list things for which she's thankful for the rest of the month. I think it's a great idea, so I'll make an attempt.

I'm thankful for Andrea at Unfailingly Loved and Ann at MommySecrets for sharing words of encouragement with me. These are two faithful friends who love the Lord, encourage others, and are great moms. Love you, ladies!

(and by the way... Micah is 22mos old today, Matthew turned 9mos on 11/3. Micah pulled up to standing by using the sofa yesterday for the first time. Yay, Micah! And Matthew is creeping along the furniture now. Micah has two upper molars now in addition to his lower 2 teeth, and I think he's cutting a molar on the bottom now too... weird teeth introduction for him. Matthew just cut his first tooth on the top today, which hopefully explains his CRUDDY sleeping for the past week or so. Nathan, on the other hand, cannot blame teething as an excuse for his cruddy behavior of late. I'm hoping we can chalk that up to all the changes going on with the stress of moving and that the behavior issues will subside once we get settled in our new house. We close in a week!)

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Day 31 of 31 for 21 - Tigger, Pooh and Piglet


I think it's appropriate, on this last day of Down syndrome Awareness Month, to remind you that kids with Down syndrome are KIDS FIRST. They do everything that other kids do. They are offspring. They are siblings. They are friends. They can be Pooh bears.


We joined with another family (second cousins once removed, I think) for dinner and a bit of trick-or-treating. S is one month younger than Nathan, S is 2 months older than Micah, and E is one week older than Matthew (and 8 pounds lighter, I might add!).


(yes, I put a son in a pink costume, but Piglet is a boy and the name truly fits!)

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Day 29 of 31 for 21 - I got nothin'

Seriously. Nothing to say, really. I mean, should I bore you with more information about Down syndrome? Add more links to share about some of the cool things that people with Down syndrome have accomplished? Talk about more of the medical stuff?

Nope. Not today. Why? Because m3s (my 3 sons) are sleeping and I want to do the same.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Day 28 of 31 for 21 - Wordless Wednesday

Sweet Micah
Nathan's preschool class after their "program" today
This morning...

June 2006...

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Day 27 of 31 for 21 - New doctor for Micah

Doesn't this look like the beginnings of a game of "Ha" ?
(no, you didn't miss something... I didn't post yesterday. I was planning to post last night but Micah had a rough evening and ended up crying almost all night long. No fun. He still has a cough today, but no fever.)

Micah saw a neurodevelopmental pediatrician today. She specializes in kids with Down syndrome. We arrived at 8:40 for his 8:45 appointment and we left the building at 12:00. The poor little guy didn't get much sleep last night (nor did I... Mark is away on business), so by 11:00 he was basically past tense.

Anyway, I LOVE LOVE LOVE this doctor. This is one of the reasons I was looking forward to moving here. She is a wealth of knowledge about Down syndrome. She truly read ALL of his records from all of his previous issues and asked me a lot of questions while we were there. And she was very encouraging too, which I definitely needed today. In general, she's very pleased with where Micah is developmentally, especially given all of the health issues he has had. I need that reminder sometimes. It's so easy for me to compare him to all of his buddies that we left in the Valley (who were all walking at age 2) and get sad about how he doesn't bear much weight on his legs yet. But I have to remind myself that most of them didn't spend over 3 months in the hospital their first year of life.

Therapies - We need to focus on eating and speech, and we will look into private services to supplement Early Childhood. He will walk eventually. But we need to get a good foundation for speech sooner rather than later. She feels good about the therapies available through our new school district (Birth to Three services are provided through the school system here in MN, rather than through the county, which is how WI runs Birth to Three). But she also recommended a private SLP (speech and language pathologist) who specializes in muscle-based oral motor skills (Talk Tools... anyone out there have kiddos working with this program?).

ENT - At Micah's August visit to the Feeding Clinic in MKE, he had a swallow study done. The SLP who did the swallow study said that Micah's tonsils weren't affecting his swallow, but her opinion was that they were blocking about 50% of his airway. Dr. M (who we saw today) looked in Micah's mouth (not an easy task, I might add) and she couldn't see his uvula because his tonsils were so big (though she did consider that she couldn't see his uvula perhaps because he was screaming!). She recommended we talk to ENT. It's possible that Micah's tonsils are causing him to breath through his mouth which might be why he doesn't sleep well. We'll see an ENT next week and get his opinion.

Cardiology - We received a referral to a cardiologist from Micah's cardiologist in the Valley. She has a good reputation here, but she's at "the U" (meaning, she's at University of MN rather than at Children's Hospital... there's also Gillette Children's... confusing around here with so many options). Dr. M thought it would be better for Micah to see a cardiologist at Children's since he would likely have most of his care there (i.e. ENT). But the U is known for cardiac surgery. And I do want Micah to be seen by an ophthalmologist at the U (a recommendation from Dr. G in Madison). And since Micah might need eye surgery next year... ugh. Decisions.

Orthotics - Micah was measured for orthotics today. Many kids with Down syndrome have very loose ligaments in their ankles and that can cause pronation. Micah is no exception. So we're getting him some Sure Steps to help support his ankles while he stands. I've heard other parents say that their kids were much more confident in the standing position after getting their Sure Steps. Micah's will arrive in about 2 weeks and we'll go back to have them fitted at that time. For those of you whose kids already have them and you're wondering what pattern we chose, Micah will be wearing the stylish "Traffic Soup" pattern. :-)

That's all the news that's fit to print.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Day 25 of 31 for 21 - the Garcia's

For my friends who don't know Renee at My Special K's, I just want to share a bit about their family (I hope you don't mind, Renee... I just think you're super cool). They're getting closer to their adoption date. That might not sound very unique, but here are some tidbits about them that I find to be great:

  1. They're a military family.
  2. They live in TN (we used to live there too!).
  3. They have 4 children (2 boys and 2 girls) whose names all begin with K and have 7 letters.
  4. One of their girls has Down syndrome (she's their 3rd child).
  5. That same girl has conquered leukemia and had major surgery to repair her atlantoaxial instability.
  6. They're very close to bringing home girl #3 through an international adoption (Eastern Europe).
  7. This little girl also has Down syndrome.

Did you know that in many countries, many children with Down syndrome are orphaned and institutionalized and basically left to die? I think it's incredibly cool that families like the Garcia's take a leap of faith and bring a child home who might otherwise die young, nevermind receive a mother's love.

There is an amazing organization called Reece's Rainbow that enables you to help save some of these children. Not everyone is called to adopt , but we've all been encouraged by God to care for orphans (James 1:27 - "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.").

If you feel led, you might be interested in the following video (be forewarned... it's 12 minutes long... and you'll need some tissues). I couldn't get it to link well, so you'll have to click here.

And it you'd like to help the Garcia's bring Kellsey home, please visit their adoption blog and contribute (though I think they have to make their blog private soon since they're leaving soon for Eastern Europe).

Bringing Kellsey Home

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Day 24 of 31 for 21 - Pray for Polly



I just read about a sweet little girl named Polly (through Renee at My Special K's (I'm working on a post about Renee's family too... ha, Renee, are you nervous?). Polly has Down syndrome. And best I can tell from her mom's blog, she's almost 4 years old. She was just diagnosed with Moyamoya disease, which is basically constriction of some arteries in the brain. She will go through brain surgery in November.

Does this fall into the category of things that are more likely to happen to our kiddos with designer genes? From my personal experience, Micah has a narrow airway, narrow ear canals, and is a difficult "stick" (it's sometimes a bit challenging to draw blood from his little veins).

Whatever the cause, it simply stinks. This sweet little girl had some seizures last week and now she needs brain surgery.

This wonderful family lives in the Chicagoland area and S is a pastor of a church. The family adopted a little girl from the Ukraine this summer. She also has Down syndrome.

Please pray for Polly.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Day 23 of 31 for 21 - AV Canal

I know I'm skipping over a few questions and answering this one first. I received an email question about Micah's heart defect so I thought I'd address that one as I'm thinking of it.
Almost 50% of babies with Down syndrome have a heart defect. Almost half of those are an atrioventricular canal defect (AV Canal, or AVSD, atrioventricular septal defect). We thought we were in the clear (as it relates to heart defects) before the ultrasound at 24 weeks. The perinatologist was looking for it and didn't find a problem at 21 weeks. So it was a HUGE surprise to us when I had my ultrasound in Milwaukee during our day-long meet and greet with the staff at Children's who would be caring for Micah after he was born.

In a nutshell, an AV Canal is a combination of multiple heart defects: an ASD (hold between the atria), a VSD (hole between the ventricles), and improperly formed valves. Micah had 2 ASD's, 1 VSD, and his valves were a mess. Here's some information from the Children's Hospital website:

Why is atrioventricular canal a concern?
If not treated, this heart defect can cause lung disease. When blood passes through both the ASD and VSD from the left side of the heart to the right side, then a larger volume of blood than normal must be handled by the right side of the heart. This extra blood then passes through the pulmonary artery into the lungs, causing higher pressure than normal in the blood vessels in the lungs.

The larger the volume of blood that goes to the lungs, the higher the pressure. The lungs are able to cope with this extra pressure for a while, depending on exactly how high the pressure is. After a while, however, the blood vessels in the lungs become damaged by the extra pressure.

As pressure builds up in the lungs, the flow of blood from the left side of the heart to the right side and on to the lungs will diminish. This helps preserve the function of the lungs, but causes yet another problem. Blood flow within the heart goes from areas where the pressure is high to areas where the pressure is low. If the septal defects are not repaired, and lung disease begins to occur, pressure in the right side of the heart will eventually exceed pressure in the left. In this instance, it will be easier for oxygen-poor (blue) blood to flow from the right side of the heart, through the ASD and VSD, into the left ventricle, and on to the body. When this happens, the body does not receive enough oxygen in the bloodstream to meet its needs, and children may become cyanotic, or exhibit a blue coloring in their skin, lips, and nailbeds.

Because blood is pumped at high pressure through the septal openings, the lining of the right and left ventricles will become irritated and inflamed. Bacteria in the bloodstream can easily infect this injured area, causing a serious illness known as bacterial endocarditis.

For those of you who are visual learners, here are some pictures:
If you're interested in even more information, click here.

Micah's congestive heart failure kicked in around 4-5 weeks (he was still in the NICU). For Micah, that meant he started having difficulty breathing (you could see his chest retract), his breathing rate increased, he was occasionally clammy, and he had more difficulty eating. His lungs were working overtime to handle the oxygen-rich blood that was flowing back to his lungs. He was on a few heart meds (digoxin, captopril, and lasix).

Micah had a rough go with his heart surgery (May 5, 2008, on his 4-month birthday). He ended up going back on bypass twice and left the OR with his chest open (they closed him 3 days later). It was a difficult recovery for our little rock star.

Micah still has moderate regurgitation (leakage) of his mitral valve. This is not unusual, but we do want that regurg to become mild rather than moderate. He'll likely be on a heart medication for the rest of his life. But he's doing great. He's at a slightly higher risk when it comes to respiratory illnesses, though, so we're really praying he doesn't get the flu. So far, so good!

Day 22 of 31 for 21 - an artist's game

This video is absolutely amazing! It's only 4 minutes long and well worth it. Make sure you turn up your volume and truly listen.


(if you're reading this in email, then link here for the video)

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Day 21 of 31 for 21 - Wordless Wednesday







Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Save the Date!

My friend, Melanie, at Baeten Family is coordinating (along with DSFN) a new Down Syndrome Awareness Walk in the Fox Cities. The date is October 2, 2010. We plan to visit that weekend and attend the walk (it's at Riverside Park). For all of our friends "back home," we'd love for you to save the date and walk with us! It would be extra special fun if Micah was able to walk it instead of riding in the stroller. Another huge perk... Rachel Coleman will be speaking and doing a performance of Signing Time. For those of you who haven't seen the videos, Micah is an addict! It's been so helpful in teaching him sign language. Rachel has two children with special needs and I'm looking forward to seeing a live performance.
Curious about Halloween signs? See the following video:



And just for kicks, here are some Thanksgiving signs:

Day 20 of 31 for 21 - Stir Crazy, sick baby, Micah eating

We've been in our apartment for 10 days now and I think we're all climbing the walls. Only 3.5 weeks to go!

Matthew went through a scream fest last night and finally ended up sleeping from about 10-4. He's on antibiotic #2, which he received on Friday evening after 5 days on amoxicillin did not do the trick. As of this morning, his ear looks better than it did on Friday, so we're hoping that this 10-day course on augmentin will do the trick. Way to make friends with the new pediatricians after only being here a week.

Micah is eating well, as long as it's baby cereal mixed with a fruit. He's not doing well with anything else right now. I'm not sure if it's the flavor or the texture or the consistency. But he took 6 ounces of it tonight! He's probably take a 4-ounce container of stage 2 bananas too, but he doesn't need the constipation assistance!

Monday, October 19, 2009

Day 19 of 31 for 21 - Peter Becht

Another inspirational individual (thanks for the link, Wendy). Click here to see a news article on a young man with designer genes who earned the status of Eagle Scout. He met all of the requirements (including 24 badges, more than the required 21). The only concession made for him was that his troop leader was able to get him an extension to age 19 since he was still in high school.

My favorite part might be his quote: "Down syndrome doesn't mean I'm stupid. It means it takes me longer to learn the same things you do."